Her voice may become higher, and her body language will take on that of a child as she fully embraces her little side. When a little is in little space, she will typically enjoy the things she used to when she was a child, such as playing with stuffed animals and watching Disney movies.

If the little behaves herself, she may be rewarded, and the rewards can be anything from a day out at the zoo to a big cuddle to toasted marshmallows – basically anything the little enjoys. Punishments occur when the little breaks the rules (which they will sometimes do on purpose!). This discipline could take the form of corporal punishments like whipping, flogging and spanking, or it could be as simple as not giving their little ice cream after dinner! The Daddy Dom takes on the role of the caregiver, and they will both nurture and discipline their little. When the little is pretending to be younger than their actual age, it is known as being in ‘little space’ and is really just a different frame of mind.

This could be as old as a teenager or as young as a baby who wears diapers, and it involves giving up control and handing it over to the Dom, or caregiver. The submissive one in the DDLG relationship, known as the ‘little,’ will often regress back in age to a younger, more childlike state of mind, known as ‘age-play.’ What is DDLG and What Does a DDLG Relationship Look Like in Practice? Of course, the term ‘DDLG’ applies to a heterosexual male/female relationship, but there are many variations of the acronym to account for different types of relationships, such as MDLG (Mommy Domme, Little Girl), DDLB (Daddy Dom, Little Boy) and TMLB (Trans Mommy Little Boy).Ī term that encompasses every type of DDLG relationship is CGL, which stands for Caregiver, Little, and can include all genders and sexual orientations.įor the sake of this article, I am going to refer to the practice as DDLG because that is the most well-known variant (aside from ABDL perhaps), but most of the things that I will go on to describe can refer to all forms of CGL. I understand that to many, hearing the terms ‘Daddy’ and ‘little girl’ in a sexual context are icky, and look, you don’t have to like it, but you do have to realise that people who practice DDLG are not doing anything wrong or shameful.

DDLG describes a kinky age-play/role-play between two consenting adults and people in DDLG relationships are not paedophiles, nor are they trying to act out any paedophilic fantasies.

Now, before we go any further, I want to make something very clear – DDLG has nothing to do with incest or paedophilia. In a DDLG relationship, the dominant partner takes on the role of either a nurturing or strict caregiver (hence, ‘Daddy’), with the submissive partner taking on the role of a youthful ‘little girl.’ Well my lovelies, worry thee not because I’m about to answer all of your questions, including what is DDLG? What does ‘DDLG’ mean? Why do people enjoy DDLG? And the biggie – is DDLG always sexual?ĭDLG is an acronym that stands for ‘Daddy Dom, Little Girl’ and it describes a type of BDSM relationship that is becoming increasingly common. Perhaps you have never heard of it before, or maybe you have a vague idea of what DDLG is but don’t really understand what it’s all about. You may have noticed that a lot of the lingerie on this site contains the letters ‘DDLG’ in its description or title and be wondering what is DDLG?

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